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The Friend in your relationship wants to feel understood. The Friend comes from my 3-part framework: Partner, Lover, Friend. These are the three roles I’ve identified in your singular romantic relationship.

I’m out of town on vacation, so I’m bringing you an episode from my archives where I talk about The Friend.

  • You’ll hear how The Friend thrives when you and your sweetheart have time to just hang out
  • We’ll talk about why companionship builds trust between you and your sweetheart
  • And I’ll give you a date night discussion prompt to make it easier to spot the ways you and your sweetheart are good companions.

Read a full transcript of this episode.

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3 roles in your relationship

This week, we’re talking about The Friend. The Friend wants to be understood. The Friend loves to hang out relaxing, not watching the clock because the Friend just wants to be known and to know you. The Friend is the one who gives you a sense of belonging.

Next week, we’ll talk about The Partner. The Partner is the one who gets stuff done. The Partner loves accomplishment, and wants to feel like the two of you are one united TEAM.

In two weeks, we’ll discuss The Lover. The Lover wants to explore. No time to be bogged down by responsibility, the Lover is the one who plays and indulges desires. The Lover is the one who keeps the chemistry alive in your relationship.

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