Communication

What’s a reasonable expectation to have of your lover? There are three roles/relationships inside your singular marriage. Sometimes you’re in sync with your lover and everything just flows. These flow times happen when each of you is occupying the same role at the same time. But what happens when you’re…

Can You Feel What a Kiss Does to Your Marriage? Or are you busy thinking about how your spouse doesn't kiss you often enough so probably your marriage will be over soon? The single most important habit for a healthy marriage is to stay in your own business. The problem…

Is your marriage communication full of talking or silence? Are your frustrated because your spouse never talks to you? Or maybe you’re frustrated because your spouse talks incessantly. Here are 2 key habits to improve your marriage communication: Talk. Stop talking. Obvious, right? But when is talking the thing that…

Are you having marriage problems and it’s time to communicate? Suddenly you want to hide. Or do the dishes. Anything but face those relationship troubles. Clarity in your marriage communication starts with knowing precisely what you want. When it’s time to make decisions with your spouse—about dinner, or vacations, or…

When It’s Time to Communicate in Your Marriage, Does Your Spouse Disappear? Do You?   Marriage conflict terrifies you, so you: hide your desire, even from yourself. I’d rather be blind than see something that will cause relationship conflict. try to control everything. If I control everything well enough, it…

Your spouse won’t communicate. How are you supposed to have a marriage?! If you want to improve your marriage communication, it may seem odd, but you need to start by protecting your fears. "My spouse won’t listen to me."  "My spouse won’t talk to me." These are the two complaints…