Do you remember the scene in the Titanic when Rose and Jack are in the car and Rose says, “Put your hands on me, Jack?” Rose knew how to own her own orgasm. She made a clear and seductive demand, right? Young girls are taught to be good: don’t be…
Are you tired? Out of gas? Grumpy in your relationship as a result? Your spouse leaves crumbs on the counter after buttering toast and you explode, “If I wasn’t always cleaning up your crumbs, we would have friends, and I’d get my book done!” Isn’t that silly? And yet you…
Which is more intriguing to you: When your spouse has a heart-stopping shock or the look on your spouse’s face as it gradual dawns on them that a surprise is unfolding? Either way, you can create a treasure hunt that will make a great memory. Today we’ll talk about ideas…
Do you feel unappreciated in your relationship? Invisible to your partner? This week’s habit for your happily ever after is to use the word "Thank you" to promote interaction with your partner. Your relationship will deepen when you use “Thank you” to interact rather than transact. When you use “Thank…
Avoid conflict when you communicate better in your relationship. How does a simple phrase like "What should we make for dinner?" turn into a massive relationship conflict? We've all had it happen, right? You think you're asking a simple question, but your partner blows up and suddenly your tangled in…
Bubble gum saved my marriage communication. It let my husband and me heal after our fight. It was those big square chunks: Bubble Yum, pink lemonade flavor. “It’s a race to see who blows the first bubble,” I said, doling out the gum as we got in the car. We…