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Rebecca Mullen

Author ∙ Speaker ∙ Podcaster ∙ Coach

Emotional. Straightforward. Vulnerable. These are words used to describe Rebecca Mullen’s speaking style. “I felt like she was talking straight to me.” A Master-Certified Relationship Coach, Rebecca brings over two decades of experience to her classroom.

”It was a relief to hear Rebecca voice aloud the struggles I've faced in my marriage.

Diana Crabtree Green

Rebecca has helped hundreds of couples navigate conflict, improve communication, and reignite the spark in their partnerships.

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”Rebecca is one of the most insightful, sensitive, and empathetic humans I know!

Faye Tidd

Topics for Conversation

How fear sabotages your relationship communication

Fear pollutes communication. Your audience will learn to find fears in unexpected places. Then, they’ll learn 3 key strategies to overcome fear with self compassion:

  • To identify when fear sneaks into everyday conversations, poisoning conversations with dirty asks
  • How to tame fear so it doesn’t sabotage communication
  • The secret power of kindness and self-compassion to feel naturally brave and strong
  • Why “flying into fears” can create rapid growth and self confidence

You think you’re asking cleanly. But you’re not.

Your audience will recognize themselves and laugh as we identify several dirty-asking-strategies. This lighthearted approach allows participants to let go of shame and open to the possibilities of vulnerably asking for what they’ve always longed for. Potential conversations include:

  • What is the Clean Ask Formula?
  • How do we avoid the trap of the Dirty Ask?
  • Why does laughter help so much?

Mastering the art of apology: How to heal after hurt

Everyone in your audience knows the feeling of hurting someone’s feelings and not knowing how to make it better. In this conversation your listeners learn simple and specific steps to offer an apology that truly heals the hurt. Potential conversations include:

  • What are the 4 steps in a tender apology?
  • How do we soften our partner’s hardened heart?
  • What is the #1 roadblock to a good apology?

”I love Rebecca and this podcast! What sets it apart is that Rebecca doesn't just tell you what makes for great relationships. She tells you how to do it. She breaks down communication so we can see where exactly we are going wrong and then shows us how to get it right, for all aspects of our relationships. Gold!

Allison Evans

I’m Rebecca Mullen and the thing I’m most proud of in my life is my marriage.

My husband and I:

  • Met in junior high
  • Healed the wounds from my parents’ divorce
  • Live in a marriage that “died” twice, then came back stronger

My clients have:

  • Reinvented what communication looks like
  • Grown deep trust to feel their partner is their best friend
  • Ignited their sex life including overcoming a sexless marriage

Your audience will:

  • Avoid wounds that destroy a relationship
  • Learn tiny habits that are simple to implement
  • Watch those habits improve the connection you feel