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171: The Partner Role in Your Relationship

The Partner in your relationship loves to get stuff done. Who is that “Partner?” you’re asking. I’m talking about my 3-part framework: Partner, Lover, Friend. These are the three roles I’ve identified in your singular romantic relationship. I’m out of town on vacation, so I’m bringing you an episode from…

Rebecca S MullenJuly 20, 2026

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170: Better Vacations: Dream Bigger and Increase Connection

Dreaming is a vulnerable thing to do. And dreaming with your sweetheart? Doubly vulnerable. So how can you feel good dreaming about great vacations to take together? Today we’re talking about vacations and my 3-part framework: Partner, Lover, Friend. Today we’ll focus on The Friend in your relationship and how…

Rebecca S MullenJuly 16, 2026

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169: The Friend Role in Your Relationship

The Friend in your relationship wants to feel understood. The Friend comes from my 3-part framework: Partner, Lover, Friend. These are the three roles I’ve identified in your singular romantic relationship. I’m out of town on vacation, so I’m bringing you an episode from my archives where I talk about…

Rebecca S MullenJuly 9, 2026

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168: 6 Kinds of Fun for Your Relationship

What kills a fun time faster than anything else? Someone who doesn’t want to be there. Not everyone has fun in the same way. When you understand what’s fun for you, it’s easier to ask your partner if they want to join you in having your kind of fun. Today…

Rebecca S MullenJuly 2, 2026

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167: 49 Years Later, They’re Still Each Other’s Favorite Date

What does it look like to build a marriage where kindness becomes second nature? I spend a lot of time helping couples figure out how to make their relationship work. Today, you'll hear a conversation with Jamee and Doug Simons, a couple who have spent nearly 50 years creating the…

Rebecca S MullenJune 25, 2026

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166: Better Communication Begins with You

Today, I bring you an interview when I was a guest on the podcast, Stronger in the Difficult Places, with psychotherapist, author, speaker, and media contributor Dr. Zoe Shaw. The guiding premise of her podcast: “We’re not fixing them, we’re fixing you, and that changes everything.” Dr. Shaw has been…

Rebecca S MullenJune 18, 2026

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165: What if They Don’t Need You to Fix it? with Dr. David Marcus

You hate seeing your partner suffer. So, you jump to solutions. When someone we love is hurting, our instinct is often to fix it. But rarely do any of us want a solution. We need a soothing presence—someone who can sit with the discomfort long enough for the pressure to…

Rebecca S MullenJune 11, 2026

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164: Protective Defensive Maneuvers vs “Presenting the Deeper Me”

“Why don’t you ever initiate sex?!” vs cuddling up and kissing your partner’s back. Which do you typically choose? Do you hide your heart in the precise moment you want to be loved? Or are you willing to disclose that super tender underbelly? Today we look at why it’s tempting…

Rebecca S MullenJune 4, 2026

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163: Recognize the Trigger. Rewrite the Story with Michael and Penny Gold

You and your partner are the authors of your relationship story. But what happens when your childhood triggers begin writing the script? Today, my guests are Penny and Michael Gold from Relationship Alchemy. They share examples of relationship triggers and how to recognize the patterns underneath them They'll invite you…

Rebecca S MullenMay 28, 2026

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162: What if You’re Both Wrong? The Seductive Power of Either/Or

Why is either/or thinking toxic for your relationship? Because it boxes out possibilities. Why is either/or thinking so tempting? Because it simplifies our complicated lives. Today we’re noticing how toxic the unconscious but super seductive question “Either/Or” can be. I’ll take you through 3 reasons your brain loves to default…

Rebecca S MullenMay 21, 2026

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161: How Do You Say Hello to Your Partner?

One word can change the character of your relationship. Don’t believe me? I invite you to notice how you say hello to your partner. Does your hello say, “I’m glad to see you!” or is your hello flavored with the taste of goodbye? I am always sending people to episode…

Rebecca S MullenMay 14, 2026

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160: Is Your Brain Answering the Wrong Questions?

What questions are you asking yourself on a regular basis? Today, I’m inviting you to ask a better question, because if you do, you’ll magically live a better life. We’ll talk about how questions—even those invisible questions you didn’t realize you were asking yourself—are shaping your experience of the world…

Rebecca S MullenMay 7, 2026

Habits for Your Happily Ever After

171: The Partner Role in Your Relationship

170: Better Vacations: Dream Bigger and Increase Connection

169: The Friend Role in Your Relationship

168: 6 Kinds of Fun for Your Relationship

167: 49 Years Later, They’re Still Each Other’s Favorite Date

166: Better Communication Begins with You

165: What if They Don’t Need You to Fix it? with Dr. David Marcus

164: Protective Defensive Maneuvers vs “Presenting the Deeper Me”

163: Recognize the Trigger. Rewrite the Story with Michael and Penny Gold

162: What if You’re Both Wrong? The Seductive Power of Either/Or

161: How Do You Say Hello to Your Partner?

160: Is Your Brain Answering the Wrong Questions?

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