receive pleasure

When you don't get help with the details of life, you'll feel taken for granted or used. When your basic needs go unmet you don’t feel safe. When you don’t feel safe you don't have energy to be sexy. In the three roles that make up your relationship—lover, friend, and…

Leech love takes and steals. You can't feel pleasure when you're stealing. Pleasure comes when you let yourself receive with an open heart. A leech hides in the mud of ponds or lakes. When they sense movement, like your foot wading through the water, they attach to your skin and…