stay in your own business

You make assumptions. You want your partner to change. What if I told you the reason you do these things is romantic? Today we talk about the stumbling blocks that make it hard to stay in your own business: Blending and judging. We talk about how the feeling of oneness…

Are you often tempted to enter your spouse’s experience? This can look like judgement: “He should brush his teeth.” “She should find a new job.” Or blending: “He doesn’t tell me he loves me.” “She never appreciates me.” When you have these thoughts–or speak them aloud–you are in your partner’s…