clueless and codependent

Every relationship has a dynamic. It’s likely that you and your partner are opposites in this clueless/codependent dance. Most likely one of you have a tendency to be more codependent and the other has a tendency to be more clueless. So how does this clueless and codependent relationship dynamic impact…

Are you in a codependent relationship? Even though you’ve asked your partner over and over to wipe up their crumbs after making a sandwich, do you—with pursed lips and a tense jaw—wipe up the crumbs? When your partner says something insensitive, do you cover for them by saying something like,…

Are you clueless? Does your partner say things to you like, “Why can’t you just wipe up the crumbs on the counter after you make your sandwich?” or “The more you drink, the more you check out.” Or “I can never count on you.” With a lot of my private…