When anyone new starts coaching with me, they want immediate results. Even if the problem they walk into my door was created over 10 years, they want me to fix it…now. Today. In a 90-minute session.
That’s not how rock-solid coaching works and I don’t even really believe that is what you want.
You don’t want a flimsy relationship that can be shifted by a fly-by-night coach offering the latest quick-fix for your relationship. Why not? Because think how shallow the roots are on that fix. The next big wind (or your next big conflict) will blow over any shallowly-rooted-relationship.
This week, I’m offering you the framework that I use in my private coaching.
This week, I’m offering you the framework that I use in my private coaching. It includes 4 key elements:
- Celebrate
- “Good to notice”
- Tools and invitations
- The Take-away
I’ll release one episode each day that covers a part of the framework. Two days ago, we concentrated on celebration. Yesterday, I told you about why it’s “good to notice.” In this episode, I’m sharing some of the many tools that I offer my clients in our coaching sessions.
Make sure you check out all 4 parts of my coaching framework:
Part 1: Celebrate! | Listen to the episode | Read it on my blog
Part 2: “Good to notice” | Listen to the episode | Read it on my blog
Part 3: Tools and invitations | Listen to the episode | Read it on my blog
Part 4: The Takeaway | Listen to the episode | Read it on my blog
#3: Tools and invitations
No matter how many times I help my client work things out in a session, real change only happens when you practice a tool away from my office.
One of my clients, who’d been working with me for several years in a variety of capacities said to me, “You have an endless supply of tools!”
I’d love to think that was true. I do think one of my superpowers is finding a small practical way to create big, sustainable change.
My tools tend to fall into one of the following categories:
- Change your mindset
- Practice a habit
- Sample script
- Celebrate a moment
In the episode and on my blog, I break these down one by one.
Do you want to coach with me?
I have open spots in my private coaching practice. That doesn’t happen very often, so I’d love to extend that invitation to you if you’ve been wanting to coach with me.
Reach out via my text number, 970-210-4480, or you can go to this page on my website. I can’t wait to get to know you.
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